posted by Bretch Synco on Dec 17
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posted by Bretch Synco on Nov 11
I realize there are men who are faithful. This advice is for those that cheat.( My intent is never to tear men down) I try to deal with the real. Hopefully this advice can help those of you who are going through this situation.
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posted by Bretch Synco on Dec 28
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posted by Bretch Synco on Sep 20
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posted by Bretch Synco on Aug 30
It seems like a huge risk for married women who cheat so why do they do it? Some women seem to have it all. They don’t have regular “jobs” and seem to have the perfect families. Yet these are the women who do in fact cheat. Why on earth would they risk a happy home, financial security, and stature in the community to have an affair?
You might be surprised to learn that as wonderful as things appear on the outside things are rarely as picture perfect when it comes down to it. Here are a few common reasons that women risk so much by cheating.
1) Loneliness. The financial security they enjoy often comes at a heavy price. One of the most common costs involved is the sacrifice of time together as a couple. Even though she may desperately and honestly love and adore her husband, if he’s never there the relationship isn’t being fed. That means the only way it is growing is apart. She’s lonely because she is always alone while he is working hard to bring home the bacon. It doesn’t make it right or OK but it does provide some insight into why she’d take the risk. Maybe deep down inside she’s hoping to get caught so she can catch his attention.
2) Accident. Most of the time married women in these situations do not actively seek someone to have an affair with. They aren’t looking to risk their marriage. They aren’t even interested in stepping out on their husbands. Many times these are women who would tell you that they would never cheat and mean it with all their hearts. Unfortunately, some man coming along and saying the right thing at the right time can completely derail even the best of intentions. If she feels unappreciated or undervalued in her relationship (which a surprising number of housewives do) and someone comes along telling her how great she is and how fortunate her husband is and how he would never allow her efforts to go unnoticed, she becomes putty in his hands.
3) Walking on the wild side. Sometimes, and this is rarer than most people realize, women who have always played it safe and done the right things in life feel they just need to do something wild and crazy for a change. There are few risks in life that are bigger than this. She feels alive by the risk and the challenge of hiding it. She still loves her husband and family but feels she needs to do something completely wild and foolish for a change.
As you can see there are quite a few reasons that married women cheat. Not all of them have anything to do with the love they have for their husbands and families. You don’t have to end the marriage because your wife cheated. You can even get your ex back if you have already let her go.
posted by Bretch Synco on Aug 12
Many women are great and faithful, many women love to be married but some women cheat, lie, and live a promiscuous life that husbands don’t know about.Women cheat more now then they ever did before. Why is that? Most of the time it’s a change in a society, views of each of us and views of a particular woman.Her beliefs and values, what she wants and what she considers is important in this life.Why do wives cheat? Most of the time women get bored and looking for fun and attention. Women are highly emotional creatures. Women love emotions they are experiencing during attraction. Many women are stay at home moms which can make a life of a woman more boring. Women want to feel loved and desired. Wives want to be happy again.Not all bored housewives cheat. Women who love attention could cheat. Women who want to feel attracted by someone else could cheat. Women who don’t have religious beliefs or moral values could cheat too.What about the husband? Could it be that husband can’t give it to a woman what she really wants? It could be. A wife maybe is attracted to a personality that her husband isn’t. Maybe she is married to a nice man but she is attracted to bad boys. She could try to change her husband Many women don’t have time to spend with their husbands because they work. Husband comes home tired and wants to rest, so he has no energy to have a romantic evening with his wife.If couples have kids, then they become more moms and dads and forget about being lovers.A woman feels lonely and wants love and attention. She could meet someone at work who is more exciting than her husband or she could confide in her long time friend who understands her feelings and entertains her when she is lonely.How do women find time to cheat?Women could cheat a lot easier than men do. Everyone knows women are more social, so she can always tell she went out with a friend but spend time with her new lover. Or she can just tell her husband she went shopping.Some women could receive expensive gifts from a lover, or just enjoy wonderful trips to interesting places together. She probably wouldn’t spend her own money on her new man.How she starts to cheat? Women don’t just suddenly go and decide to cheat. She maybe feels distant and lonely. Try to comfort her, talk to her a lot. Women need to feel connected through deep conversation to their partner. The more she wants to talk to you and share her thoughts with you the less she will want to cheat on you.Find out what your wife considers as “cheating”. Some people believe having emotional affair is cheating, while others think that having sex isn’t cheating as long as they aren’t emotionally involved. Some people think that sex and emotional affair are both cheating.Find if your view on cheating is similar to your wive’s. Also, tell her your view on cheating, let her know you don’t want to tolerate anything of these.
posted by Bretch Synco on Aug 3
Society seems to be more accepting of the fact that husbands cheat on their wives, but there are married women who cheat on their husbands and the numbers are rising. When you hear of a woman who has been caught cheating you may be really surprised because she doesn do not fit the stereotype of what you perceive to the characteristic type of cheating wife. Some women do not take the vows of marriage as seriously as others and are known for their extramarital affairs, even though the husbands may be the last ones to find out.
There are many reasons why married women cheat on their husbands. Some of them say they are lonely and feel neglected. Others just like the thrill of knowing that they are still attractive to other men. For some it is a matter of revenge against a cheating husband and still others are just looking for something different.
A married woman who is unhappy with her role as housewife may turn to cheating to add more excitement to her life. Cheating does not necessarily refer to having an affair with another man, but also refers to one-night stands in which the woman never does see the other person again. When the wife stays home, there are many opportunities to cheat and not get caught. She can go out in the afternoons, meet with her lover and still be home in time to have dinner on the table. If the husband does not recognize any signs of unusual behavior, he will be none the wiser about the activity.
The fact is that a married woman does not just wake up one morning and decide to cheat on her husband. There are many little incidences that lead up to this, which could include dissatisfaction with her love life, feeling that she is not appreciated or simply flirting with someone. Women who work outside the home are in constant contact with men who find them attractive and will come on to them. This does help to improve one’s self-image and then leads to wondering what it would be like to sleep with this person just once. Once may be all it takes to lead to an affair.
The reasons why a married woman would risk her marriage by cheating are virtually endless and no two women will be able to give you the same reasons. Some of the more common reasons include:
* Lack of passion in the love life
* A nonexistent sex life
* A feeling of not being wanted or loved by the husband
* Spending a lot of time home alone
* A lack of quality time together
* An inattentive husband
* A lost emotional bond with the husband
Whatever the reasons may be, the fact remains that there are many women out there who are not satisfied with the man they married and look for more adventure and love in their lives. Quite often when they do cheat and their marriage suffers as a result, they realize too late what they have lost.