posted by Bretch Synco on Sep 11
Your Divine Lover is waiting for you! What if you had the same passion for yourself that a lover would? What if that love were within you, guiding you every step of the way? This book features interviews with 27 spiritual leaders.
Spiritual Leaders (Seek the Lover Within
posted by Bretch Synco on Sep 2
The main reason that Russian women want to marry Westerners is because they want to get married and have a family, and they feel that opportunity does not present itself to them in Russia today.
An unmarried woman thirty-five years old or older has virtually no chance of finding a husband in Russia. A divorced woman with children is in the same boat.
Russian women’s search abroad is the result of the absence of suitable men in Russia.
Russian women, who are seeking Westerners for marriage, believe that they will have a better chance of getting married and having a family with a foreigner than with a Russian man.
Why All Those Beautiful Russian Women Are Available
Russians typically get married young between eighteen to twenty two years of age. At that age, the number of single men and women is about even. However, as they grow older, the number of single women begins to outnumber the number of available men.
Once they are past school age, it is often very difficult for women to meet marriageable men in Russia. There are a variety of reasons for this.
Because of the unstable economic situation in the former Soviet countries, many men cannot afford or don’t want a family. Also, because of the relatively higher number of single women than men, there is no social pressure for them to get married.
Alcoholism and violence are other problems. Once a woman is nearing thirty, she is getting out of the range that many women marry in their culture. Hence, the large number of wonderful women you see who are single and available for marriage.
Yes, those beautiful women you see on websites are for real!
posted by Bretch Synco on Aug 24
Russian women like Russian men. If they could, they would prefer to marry a Russian man. Of course, a Russian woman is looking for a good husband, and many Russian men often do not make good husbands.
Russian society is very chauvinistic. Women usually do the housework and take care of the children. Because of economics, they usually have a job as well.
From a cultural standpoint, drinking is socially acceptable and many Russian men drink to excess, which can also affect their health. Many Russian men are like the old cartoon character of Andy Capp.
Some are lazy, alcoholic bums who let their wives do all the housework, plus bring home a paycheck, while they go out with their friends and drink and chase women. If their wives object, they give them a swat, and if they object too much, they leave.
Because of all the single and available women, Russian men are spoiled. Many women feel lucky to have a husband even if he is like the type just described.
After the age of thirty-five, it is virtually impossible for a Russian woman to find a husband. If they are divorced and have children, the same situation applies.
Many Russian women believe that Westerners make better husbands. Right or wrong, they believe that Westerners are more liberated than Russian men and will pitch in with more of the household tasks.
Many Russian women are attracted to American men because they are better groomed and wear cleaner clothes than Russian men. American men are more polite and genteel than Russian men. Many Russians appear impolite to Americans.
They don’t say please or thank you very often. The older generation of Russians has table manners that Americans are not used to. During the Communist years, manners were considered bourgeois and they fell out of favor.
Because of the death of so many men in the Stalinist purges and World War II, many Russian men were raised without a father. Many of them do not know how to function as a father and are minimally involved with raising their children.
Many Russian women believe that they will have more economic opportunity for themselves and for their children in Western countries than in Russia.
All the women in the world are looking for economic security. Why should Russian women be any different?
America is a nation of immigrants. Virtually all of the people who have immigrated to America were looking for a better life. They operated out of what Adam Smith called ‘enlightened self-interest.’ Russian women are no different.
This has been the reality of immigration to America from the very beginning. The Spanish traveled to the New World to find ‘the fountain of youth.’ The English followed them to the New World to find the ‘streets paved with gold.’
The Irish left the Potato Famine behind for the chance of a new opportunity in America only to experience the Coffin Ships, cholera outbreaks, and signs stating ‘Irish need not apply.’
Prejudice against immigrants, including Russian women, is nothing new. They just happen to be the newest group of immigrants that are viewed with prejudice.
posted by Bretch Synco on Aug 21
Russia, the largest FSU state has an unparalleled cultural heritage of many centuries embodied in the little towns and cities of Moscow. Numerous art galleries, museum theatre halls, and St. Petersburg on river Neva are some of the most frequented places in the cities, while small towns with cloisters and castles have an old world charm about them. Russia is also known for its huge rivers, Volga, Lena, placid seas viz. the Caspian & Black Sea and chilly Siberian winters. But, no mention of Russia can ever be complete without its charming womenfolk. Russian women have caught the fancy of westerners since ages (Ayn Rand, Anna Pavlova, Anna Kornikova, Maria Sharapova to name a few) but recent times have seen an unpreceeded number of cross country marriages between Russian women and men from various European and American countries. And, to testify the fact further, there are over 80, 000 registered marriage agencies and dating sites in Ukraine alone with a mind boggling number of educated, professional Russian girls registered with them looking for their dream man outside FSU!
Russian women are known for their ethereal beauty, poise, intelligence, warmth, and strength of their character. With such poise, grace and intelligence why do these women have to look westwards for a suitable match? But, a fact not known to many women by far outnumber the men in Russia (the men: women ratio in Russia according to 2002 statistics is anywhere between 46-54% and things haven’t much changed since then) which leaves her to either opt for a life of solitude or settle for being “second best” in their homeland. But, those who dare to look beyond the horizon, register with a dating site and find a suitable match in a foreign land.
In fact, a few of these women are seeking to break free. Russian society/culture is by and large male dominated. While the men are traditionally seen as the heads of the family and leaders, they are themselves notorious for not assuming the role! The women are left with making all the decisions for the family and supporting their lazy, deadbeat, drunkard husbands or boyfriends. In their own words, a whole lot of women opting to marry offshore admit that Russian men are irresponsible, extremely demanding, uncaring, and stone-hearted and have little empathy for their children, let alone their wives. So, Russian women have to shoulder the entire responsibility of looking after their families despite having a husband. While that may explain the independent and self reliant nature of Russian women but most Russian women if given a choice will prefer to stay indoors and devote their entire lives to their husband and children. So in fact through the dating sites they are looking for someone who can bravely shoulder their responsibilities and lead them, protect them and make them feel free!
If you’re seeking a caring, beautiful wife who places her marriage above her career and family values above material wealth, you should look no further and settle for a Russian mail order bride. But a “mail order bride” is not some merchandise you can purchase online. You must be clear about that you’re going to enter into a relation with someone a person from a foreign land who speaks an entirely different language and comes from a completely different background, which certainly means things are not going to be easy.
A relationship with a Russian woman is likely to be entirely different from any relationship you have had before. Remember you’re dating someone only to get married and not looking for easy fun. Russian women are very serious about marriage from an early age and will take their share of time to judge your intentions before answering in affirmative. Give your relation time and space to flourish before you decide to say I Do. Get acquainted with each other and learn about each other’s country, customs and life style, try to share your views on various issues and your likes/dislikes, it goes a long way in avoiding clashes at a later stage.
If you’re genuinely interested in marrying a Russian girl, you should settle for one these international match making and dating sites. Make sure that you choose a legitimate Russian dating site. Some of the better known Russian dating sites are; russiandatinglive.com, match-ru.com, Russian-women.net, rwguide.com, Loversplanet.com, European-dating-club.com, woman-russian.w-ru.com, and Baltic.russian-women. Once, registered you will have access to the profiles of thousands of Russian women from whom you may handpick a select few on the basis of their age, physical appearance, interests, hobbies or professional background and interact with them through e-mails, postal mails, telephone or voice chats. Apart from this, these sites also provide many additional services like dating tips, translation services and wealth of information about Russia and its culture. But, they can only bring the two ends close by; making them meet will depend on how you nurture your relation.
A word of caution though, you must make sure that your Russian mail order bride is marrying you only for love and willing for long term commitment. Because, there are a handful of women registered on such sites who are either looking for easy money or want to have some fun or even worse migrate to another country by marrying a foreigner. In fact, it is in wake of such incidents that most reputed sites require the registered Russian women to appear for a personal interview and psychological screening where their intentions, credentials are assessed thoroughly so that fake profiles can largely be avoided. The agency staff thereby claims to know the ladies personally. The ladies registered on such sites are from well to do families and have nice academic and professional background. In fact, many of these dating sites have a marriage agency in Russia and Ukraine which lends them a genuine touch. But, deciding upon one’s life partner is no child’s play and in the virtual world where things are often not what they seem, making a choice is all the more difficult. So, one should always be patient, honest and wise while deciding upon a mail order bride.
posted by Bretch Synco on Aug 3
Russia, the biggest state of the Former Soviet Union has an unmatched cultural legacy of several centuries, personified by the small towns and settlements of Glasgow, and Moscow. These major religious and cultural cities of the country have numerous theatre halls, art galleries and various cloisters and citadels that have an old world appeal to them. Apart from these quaint monuments, Russia is also known for its big rivers, peaceful seas and chilly Siberian winters. However, no description can ever be complete without the mention of the charming Russian womenfolk.
Russian women have caught the fancy of several foreign men since times immemorial, but the last few years have seen an unimaginable number of cross country marriages between men from different racial and ethnic backgrounds with Russian women. And, to confirm this fact, there are more than seventy thousand registered marriage bureaus and Russian dating sites in Ukraine alone, which list hundreds of Russian girls who are looking for their “Foreign Knight” in shining armor!
Russian women are popular for their delicate beauty, self-confidence, intellect, tenderness, and strong character. But with such dignity, refinement and aptitude why do these females have to search outside the physical boundaries of their country for a suitable match? The fact is that Russian females outnumber Russian men significantly, which leaves them with only two options, either to choose a life of seclusion and loneliness or settle for being someone’s mistress. Those who plan to defy their destiny and search ahead of their horizon, register with online dating sites.
Another reason for opting for foreign men is their need to break away from the shackles of the male dominated society of Russia. It can sound like a paradox, but harsh sexist conditions have made Russian women seek love outside their own culture and ethnicity. Russian culture is in general female chauvinist. Moreover, while the men are given the status of the masters of the family, they are reputed for not assuming the role. The Russian girls are left to take all the decisions for their children and family. Several Russian women opting to marry foreigners admit to the fact that Russian men are reckless, extremely difficult, hardhearted, and have little if no compassion for their own children, let alone their “better halves”.
Russian girls by nature prefer to stay at home and devote their lives in looking after their husband and children. But unfortunately, these girls have to bear the responsibility of taking care of their families entirely, despite having a spouse. So when they register with dating sites they search for men who can valiantly shoulder their responsibilities.
Therefore, if you are looking for a compassionate, good-looking wife who holds her marriage above anything else and places family values over money, you should settle for a Russian bride. A liaison with a Russian girl is prone to be very different from any other relationship as Russian girls are very serious about getting married and will not give away anything until they are sure that your intentions are honorable. Hence, let your relationship prosper and flourish before you choose to propose to your Russian bride.
posted by Bretch Synco on Jul 22
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posted by Bretch Synco on Jun 16
A good, decent, honest and safe man, and a man through and through. He just seems to gravitate naturally to married women even over dating. He does befriend the husbands also but is invariably closer to the women. He is not letchy at all, never crosses boundaries and yes, he is straight.
p.s. He’s 46 and never married
Thank you for your input.
I don’t dismiss the “fear of commitment” theory but think it’s not that simple. I am curious why a straight and seemingly confident man even though presented with many viable opportunities is not interested in “available” women.
posted by Bretch Synco on Jun 7